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Perhaps this helps: http://24.media.tumblr.com/bef5e3709d63b7577082ccf4815cf7ce/tumblr_mrack3UkLa1spe4pno1_r1_1280.jpg

Jealousy, insecurity and property Hi. :) First of, I am sorry for any mistakes. English is not my first tongue but I do want to make myself understood. Second... nothing I say will actually do anything, but I hope it can inspire you positively. You mentioned jealousy and the fear of loosing...

Well, I guess that as long as that behavior makes her happy, and you feel comfortable with it, it's all ok. I'm not sure it would be considered poly in those terms, more like an open relationship. But who is to say what is the border? Polyamory seems to be different for different people. My...

Because laughter sometimes helps Here's a nice link with fun things that might help you through: http://kimchicuddles.com/page/24 Remember keep flowing, don't get stuck. Cheers and much love <3 :)

Thanks <3 Thank you for the warm welcome. So far I have enjoyed this place very much. I do not have much time to come here and read through, but I will try to share my experience and learn from yours. Thank you for your advices. Will keep them in mind ;) Cheers and much love from Portugal...

I think I lost some of it in the middle, probably. I am happy to see things seem to be moving on. Poly is great because certain self-imposed responsibilities stop existing and there is less suffering from those. Perhaps it is something in the way you express yourself, London, the tone, the...

Talk and flow Hi... In my experience talking about things until everything is clear always pays off. Then you will know and decide what to do. As for the unpleasant feelings, accept them, don't fight them. Let them flow through you until they leave you. Feel them but don't focus on them let...

Focus on yourself and let it flow Hi. I am much younger than you, another gender and lack your life experience. However, my experiences are different from yours and perhaps something I write hits a button that helps you. :) The girl I've lived with, shared my life with for 10 years now, also...

Don't, but in the end, it's up to you. Honestly, I understand. I would also worry that a friend might get hurt. But even if I am not contemplating any subconscious processes that might be driving your thoughts, beyond those of simple affection-- not wanting a friend to get hurt, because you...

Feel your pain Hello, Tigger 40. I feel your pain. I mean... I understand what you feel. In a few lines I will tell you why I think I feel you and then I'll give you my input in the hopes that it might be of help or consolation. I have been with the person I am with for the last 10 years. I...

Hi. I have been in this mind set for a long time but only recently has the woman that lives with me come to agree with my principles, when she fell in love with another woman. We have been in an actively polyamourous relation for the last two or something years, but only now did I found out...