Recent content by tll2k6

She knows how to drive. All she needs to do is take the driving test. Her anxiety is making it difficult to do that, since she doesn't like being around people that she doesn't know. She thinks they constantly judge her, and during the test, she'd be right. She has been going to counseling, but...

Thanks Phy. I don't know how quickly we can proceed. She has only worked a total of 3 days in her life, due to her social anxiety. She really has nothing in her name. Hell, she doesn't have her driver's license, and her learners permit is about to expire. I can't bring myself to just kick her...

I decided to be upfront and ask her this. She said that she honestly just sees us being friends in the future. I am devastated. I really thought we could work this out. She still claims to love me, but honestly, I suspect that it's just an automatic response from me telling her that I still...

She was staying with her sister. The plan was to stay 2 weeks, originally, then until Saturday, and yesterday she decided to come back today. Since we got together so young, she never really had to survive on her own. Now, she wants to do it, and it terrifies me. I don't want to lose her...

We are planning on doing that. My wife just started with a new therapist and she mentioned that she would like to do some joint sessions. But in the meantime, I'm trying to just tell her everything that is relevant when it comes to mind. Open and honest. I had heard about the languages of love...

My wife and I have been together for 8 years in a mono relationship. Since I have known her, she has suffered from clinical depression, social anxiety disorder, and a little bit of borderline personality disorder. I have tried to be as supportive as I can regarding those things, and she is...

I have a mind that operates on logic. My confusion stemmed from our logic on the idea of what is cheating and what isn't. She said that she's coming back Friday. We are going to have some long discussions after that. I am amazed how helpful and supportive this forum is. I was reading through...

Honestly, she didn't come out and say it. But that is a discussion for another thread. I might type it out sometime tomorrow, explaining our current situation.

Thanks Phy. It really helps to hear it from the other side, so to speak. She decided to go spend this week with her sister 300 miles away, and it's been a little difficult, but we are talking things through. I want her to have all the time she needs, but it's hard after being with her almost...

Well, she didn't realize that she was falling for him, and that's what made her think she was poly. This all happened about a week ago, and we've been trying to figure it all out since then. I'm sure if we decide to continue a poly relationship, we'll be much more upfront. Thanks for your response!

This is my first post, and I am completely new to this poly thing. I fond out that my wife is in love with a person she met on the internet. They have never met irl, and he wants nothing to do with her anymore. That caused her to realize that she loved him and had for a while now, which is...