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Hi, I am sure some advice already exists here regarding this situation, but any advice would be really appreciated. Background-- I have been casually seeing a poly guy for about ~10 months now. We usually hang out 1-2 times a month. He had a primary partner of over 2-3 years. I am not really...

I guess that makes sense and something i am probably just overthinking.

I think its this that matters to me. I am generally a person who likes to be in frequent contact with people i am close with, whether it’s someone i am dating or friends or family. I usually end up checking on them and updating them about my life atleast 3-4 times a week, if not daily.

No I do not. However i am not sure what else I can and cannot do. For example last week he caught a bug and took a sick day. I usually at this point would send a soup or something to someone i am dating or even friends with (cz thats just who i am). However I wasn’t sure if it was my place to...

I really like this guy so how do I bring this up? In the past I usually just out right say something like ‘I am just someone who likes more frequent communication’. Sometimes in the past i would myself increase the communication by sending texts or photos by myself or just calling them randomly...

I am straight and have been monogamous all my life. Few months ago I matched with a guy on an app and liked him. He clearly told me he was poly before we met and that he already has a partner and has had multiple partners before. I wasn’t looking for commitment at that time and I agreed. Here...