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And now I'm also being told that I don't need to talk to the person who is going to be dating my girlfriend.

New problem-- my girlfriend found someone she wants the poly relationship to work with. The way she chose to let me decide was, "How would you feel if I want to date this person?" I pretty much said I would like to talk to both her and this person before I said yes or no, and get an idea of what...

Just a little bit ago, I finally agreed to back off and give her some space. We haven't broken up, but she says she is pissed at me because I went over to her place. So now I have to be patient and hope she can work things out herself to the point of were we can talk. But I am kinda nervous...

I'm willing to do what ever it takes to work this out. And no, I do not want to break up, but she says she wants to break up with me because she tried of hanging out with me, doesn't want me around anymore and feels burnt out in our relationship. And honestly, I don't think she is willing to do...

Today I talked to counselors about the relationship that my girlfriend and I share, and about all the things that have happened. I didn't just get one person's opinion, but multiple. They range from friends to counselors with master degrees in human relationships and interpersonal communication...

I'll admit, very good questions. To answer the first thing about getting her on here. She is blindly stubborn, she feels that she knows what she is doing in her heart, and is following her feeling, she said. When it comes down to it, I try to find answers and work things out; she goes with gut...

Hello, I'm here because I need some help. I am monogamous, just to let you know, but my girlfriend believes she has been polyamorous her whole life, even though she has had only one poly relationship. She has lived as a mono, and our relationship has been mono also for the past year. Now, my...

Hi, My name's Mike and Im actually a monogamous who's here for help.