Recent content by Topazia

Hello all, It's me from the "My BF won't let me go" thread. Well... he has been moved in 2 weeks. This weekend he realised he can't handle poly. He had to make a choice. He has chosen me. But he doesn't feel he had a reason to dump her other than she shouted at him on the phone and demanded an...

Hehehe this has made me chuckle :) I just got some uni essays back...one mark off a 1st! x

Just noticed the replies...i have tried many times the past month to stay away from him, leave him to let things cool off and he rings me, turns up at my place...i am reluctant to let him go but he keeps fighting for me. And since my last relationship and getting back into my hobbies i am...

The moving in is needed financially, i have been looking for a suitable housemate or another place without luck, the medical condition i have i need help and he is brilliant at it, i know it is not ideal but it is just for the final year of my degree. I am totally not co-dependant, i am very...

Thank you all for your honest answers..most i already know in my head i guess. He will be moving in and i am considering asking him to be my best friend and an awesome housemate...its not what i want but i guess i need to stop things sooner than later..i ahve been his friend for 4 years so...

He has been my friend for 4 years so i care about his welfare, i tried to tell him yesterdsay he needs looking after and i don't think she is doing it. She is very clingy and everyone i meet says how jealous of me she is...she has radically changed the way she dresses (baggy jeans t shirts) to...

I was very ill with my disease though and became depressed and afraid to leave the house. My bf at the time didn't make any friends here and worked shifts so it was a cycle. With this relationship i want to use what i learnt and make sure i don't get wrapped up...why i have been encouraging him...

That is what I'm trying to figure out. She is 19, very OTT. Very active in the gay community. She describes herself as lesbian. This D/s dynamic, he said she makes him feel an adult, as he has responsibility for her, while I make him feel normal and keep him grounded. I don't see his love for...

Sigh... I know. That's why I tried to start going back to friends. It's just that nobody has ever fought for me, and he is fighting so hard. I do actually quite like the idea of him having someone, but this girl just seems too demanding and not good for him. He has said she wont sleep over...

I didn't say I was making him choose. I know full well. As I said, I haven't told him to. It's what I keep saying to him, that I would never let him choose. But when I try to end it, he keeps calling and won't let be me. He's fighting so hard for me, it makes me start wondering if I should...

Hello all, I will try make this short. I am 23. At Christmas, I had a house, a fiance, and thought my life was on track. Then in January he just up and left me and everything crumbled. I started talking to an old crush and he told me he had a gf. After flirting and joking, he said she didn't...