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    mid twenties/ female/ Portland, Oregon

    haven't been caught yet :)
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    What's in it for a unicorn?

    I suppose I'm a unicorn RP asked me to comment on this thread since it would seem not many unicorns have responded here. I think one common thing that I've liked reading in this thread are the people who have brought up to think of unicorn's not as some third, outside, obtainable thing...
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    The Stats Don't Match.

    Something else to consider is the possibility that of that percentage you mentioned of men who identify as bi or gay, its possible that a higher percentage are gay than bi, thus looking for a couple like a bi sexual woman might doesn't appeal to them because they have no interest in women...
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    Why Is it So Hard?

    Something else to consider As a single, white, emotionaly bi, sexually bi curious female who's actively looking for a couple, I've noticed one thing. Many of the couples out there seem too have very specific demands on who they want as their unicorn. Mostly that they physically are extremely...
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    mid twenties/ female/ Portland, Oregon

    In doing some self reflection and talking with a few people, I've come to realize that I am very much bi emotional - I have had very intimate relationships with women in the past, but since they were not of a sexual nature never realized that a intimate relationship with a woman that was only...
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    mid twenties/ female/ Portland, Oregon

    Hi There, I'm 26 years old, and recently realized that I the feelings and opinions on multiple relationships all my life are what many call polyamory. I'm currently single, and I'm not sure what sort of relationship structure I'm interested in (open to a vee, triad), but I consider myself...
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    Oregon couple

    Hi there, don't know if you're still looking, but I am 26, female, single, poly, and live south of portland by about 30 minutes.
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    Advice for first meeting a metamour?

    Thanks both Black Unicorn and MrFarFromRight, You both gave me good things to think about, and Black Unicorn, my guy, I'm going to start calling him Mr.C, surprised me with a coffee date this morning when I got off work, and we talked a little about the meeting this weekend. The sex/std stuff...
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    Advice for first meeting a metamour?

    First meeting of metamour... Help! I'm meeting my potential metamour this weekend and I'm excited and confused. We're going on a group date which will be my second physical date with the guy. He and his wife have a third date policy, but he and I hit it off so well that we decided to do a group...
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    What to expect...

    Update I went out on a first date tonight with the new guy, it was a fantastic date! :) He brought me roses, and was a total gentleman. I'm got to ask all of my questions about polyamor and we were both so open and honest with each other... he told me things that only a small handful of...
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    Contemplating polyamory...please help!

    Hi Manda, I am new to polyamory as well, however am a few years older than you and your boyfriend (26). I only recently figured out that I identify as poly, and it took meeting someone who is poly to put the name to the feelings and thoughts I've had since I was a teenager. I dont have a lot...
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    What to expect...

    I found the thread you mentioned, this helps a bit. I'm still hoping to great from others who were in the same situation at some point in their past, or who have advice for someone with limited relationship experience and no poly relationship experience. Thanks!
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    What to expect...

    Thank you for this, I think I'll take what you said and kinda make a list of the things I need and want and see what they think when I end up meeting her.
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    What to expect...

    I have tried searching those tags, but couldn't find anything about what to possibly expect, and most of the other threads seemed to be about vees where the woman is the hinge and there isn't a marriage with kids involved with the primary relationship.
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    What to expect...

    I'm new to the poly way of life, and have recently met a wonderful man who is poly, he and his wife have been together for about 18 years, are legally married, and have 4 children all under the age of 18 together. they live together about 20/25 minutes away from where I live. He's told me that...
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