Recent content by TornInTwo

Hi Spodder and RosyRump, and thank you both for some good advice! As of right now, I'll be following AussieLover's advice about finding out how F feels before I even approach this with my wife again. I feel it's a lot safer because, not only has F implied she finds me adorable but wouldn't want...

I think I've decided my course of action. I agree with AussieLover that I really need to find out what F is thinking and how she's feeling. I know I'm not going to get an honest answer out of her if I come up to her cold and just flat-out ask, so I've started flirting with her again. When and if...

Hi Legion, Pretty well on the nose, unfortunately. There's more detail to my dilemma in my other thread, http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1014, if you're interested in reading. I'm working on a decision to that, and any advice you could offer would be greatly appreciated...

Thank you all for showing such love and support! I feel like I may have found some new friends here.:D In my defense and F's, I don't know that she's discussed anything with her husband or not, but her actual search for another lover wound up more of a mental exercise, which is part of why I'm...

Thank you everybody for your support, input and advice. I appreciate it so much, and it helps to know I'm not alone. Yea, I'm scared shitless and nowhere near ready to take another step with either my wife or F. But knowing I'm not alone has lifted me up enough to at least start rationalizing my...

Hi AussieLover, and thanks for your response! I suspected it would come down to that. I wish I were more assured that my wife wouldn't freak out once more. Perhaps the right opportunity will come along for that discussion. I know I certainly didn't put my wife in the right frame of mind in...

So here's the situation. I love my wife. She's my best friend, we do as much as we can together as our schedules permit (which doesn't cause a lot of conflict). We cook together, clean house together, play together, take trips together, we celebrate our love twice a month with date night, make a...

Thanks for the warm welcomes!

Hi everyone, I'm a bit nervous about this, but here goes. I've been happily married to an intelligent, beautiful, wonderful, sexy, playful lady who fills me with love and light for going on 10 years. We are each other's best friend, and strive to be together as much as our work schedules allow...