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Thanks, I've revisited relationship boundaries and things are moving forward. Thanks guys.

That's a tough decision. I hope you're making the right one. perhaps a counselor or a break is in order. You definitely need to talk about relationship boundaries and more. It all depends on if you believe the trust can be restored.

This is how my poly relationship began. .my girlfriend slipped up and ventured out. I swallowed it and we began our polyamorous relationship where this was now allowed (that person is excluded due to trust issues). STD issues are real and I would be concerned but try to be open and...

maybe he's turned off because you're too close or too clingy? give him some space and keep your options open.. perhaps a transfer is in order?

I'm on OKC.. I get views and responses.. most people are nice. I have that I'm looking for friends, activity partners, long term and short term dating.. I state in my actual profile that I'm looking for friends and open poly people which is honest and true. I'm not looking to get laid. I'm not a...

you have to consider the other person involved as well. sure you and your Boyfriend have to agree on boundries and all but this guy may not be into it at all. He might just feel used. Alot of ladies men are really closet romantics looking to be loved. They fall for girls quick and put up walls...

So I'm a new guy to poly and of course my primary girlfriend who is Bisexual wasn't fulfilled so we've opened our relationship up towards being polyamourus. I'm quite happy with what I've found but now I have delima. She found someone she likes and is dating her regularly.. at least for now...

Sounds to me like she can't let you dominate her because she can't stomach seeing people who dominate her in the bedroom everyday. She's having a hard time separating sexuality with your relationship.. what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. I would honestly give her the space. She...

TOTG> I'm new to poly and my partner has already found herself someone she is dating regularly.. she calls her babe and text i love you's to her new untitled girlfriend. I have to admit I am down for poly and new to all these concepts but I still got envious when I heard her say these things to...

Archaeolibris> I'm new to being poly but I see people labeling swingers as people with high sex drives and people who are not looking to "love many people" which is the definition of "polyamourus." An NSA or "no strings attached" person is not looking to form polyamourus relationships and it's...