Recent content by townie1221

Oh awesome! I looked at Kingston to move to before moving down near the DC area for work. Was just up in NY a few weeks ago, so nice and cool compared to the humid swamp in the DC area haha

I would love this, not sure she'll ever want to move in together again but if that does happen I now know exactly how to approach her need of space at least Yeah, it helps though to hear outsider views, lets me rethink things through again in my head and see if there's something there i'm...

Hmm true, though I don't have anything really in this area other than work, which I can do from anywhere remotely so that works out. Friends and family are not in this area, devoted myself mostly to work and i've never been super social anyways haha. She's told me she needs the time to center...

Yeah I don't see myself being a poodle following her out, and I told her that as well. Basically i'm following her out there to see an area I don't know and experience a few things out there I want to do (grand canyon, wolf sanctuary) but a good portion of the reason IS that I want to keep our...

I still want to see this relationship through so no second thoughts in my mind yet and her actions don't seem to relay that she's having second thoughts either...or at least from what I am picking up on. Still cuddles close to me, kiss and caress my face and cling to me while we fall asleep...

She told me she felt bad if she were to just leave me at home alone, where I'll usually play some games and have a few drinks, but when she comes home it had looked like I was just drinking in self pity to her. We talked about that though and I told her that to me, if left alone I would rather...

Yeah, I have suffered a lot in depression and also at times pushed away help in terms of medication and tried to wrestle it myself. She said she has had this happen before, at least recognizes the tell of it and wants to face it head-on before it just blows up in her face and threatens her...

Well it's not a poly thing in the sense that she has any issues with other partners or I do, which is starting the break. What is beginning this break is that she's recognizing signs of self destruction and depression that she's seen before and wants to cut it off before it happens again to...

Hey all, first post to these forums but I found them as I was Googling around about poly relationship advice and "breaks" so figured I would ask for a little input here. Couple both in our 30s So I got home from a trip over the past few days and when I left I could tell something was wrong...