Thank you so much! I thought about doing this, and will in the future, but had a lot to pour out and failed. Will do better in the future ^_^
I have noticed that in myself since the move. I plan to have a talk with Blue in the very near future (our next meet) about the influx of attention...
Thank you for your responses. Your insights have paired with my own introspection with this situation and have given me some wonderful paths ahead on how to navigate this.
I know I shouldn't have gone along with things because I felt pressured or thrust into situations. That is 100% on me and...
Afterthought I forgot to mention: Each time we've hungout with this new setup, she was texting her a lot. When they hang out, I'm lucky to get a response.
I've been reading through this forum a bit and am curious about your thoughts with on current situation. (Strap in, it's a long one.)
About 11 months ago, my partner, Red (32f) of 11 years blindsided me (36MtF) that she was poly and wanted to open the relationship. (We lived together the whole...