Recent content by troubled

here's the update.. no, we're not allright. So, we broke communication... It's been.. really hard on me.. like a drug addict during abstinence crisis. I assured myself it was temporary. OK, i won't get to be with Daisy romantically.. but I miss her immensely as a friend. I miss Aaron too.. and...

It can be argued that relationships of two do tend to be much more stable than relationships of three or more. On the other hand.. control over the stability of the relationship is rarely enough. Seems to me that control is just an illusion.. and the more you try to hold on to that illusion, the...

I totally understand what you mean when you say "its so good and feels so right" :) I wish you all the best. So far, i think i learned these things: - if any interested party actually shows to be not interested, and to the point that he/she has to be lied to - all participants need to be...

I wish you all the luck.. and love. People tend to hold strongly to their beliefs in general.. but impossibly so in the "love" department. I'm still green.. but right now, I can't see how closing my heart can be a god thing. I've recently started meditating.. mostly to find a way to let go of...

Thanks enormously for the reply. Well.. things weren't that.. simple (as they rarely are) but my post was already getting too long so I skipped a lot of details. Daisy and I didn't hide our feelings from the start. Actually, not at all. Sarah and I are pretty close and have.. an honest an open...

well... here it is. Daisy told Aaron everything last night. He freaked out... he didn't leave her after all, but thing's aren't good. He's currently kind of blackmailing her with their daughter in a position where he expects her to do everything he wants... and nothing she wants. I'm hoping...

Hello.. I've been meaning to post here for over a year now. I always thought that it would be on a good day - this is not one of them :) I'm Zack, 34, male, married for 9 years. 12 total in a current relationship. I guess I've always been poly, I just didn't know it was a word. I knew that "you...