Recent content by true2self

Wow I love the way you write. Good luck. I hope it all stays positive.

PLove, thank you for your update. It helps me understand my wife better. For me, that fact that you love your man enough to just meet her and try to understand, even if you say, "I can't do this," in the end, is PRICELESS. I too am very sorry for the affair and sneaking around behind my wife's...

I did the same as you, but my wife doesn't want to meet the other love in my life, and it's come back to a mono marriage or divorce. I feel you are blessed.

I hope hearing from me makes you feel as good as I do getting this update from you. You feel so alone during this battle. Everyone you talk to is so churchy and monogamous. How many times have your heard "You want to have your cake and eat it to"? Uuuuugh. I read the The Seven Steps of...

thank you I will start my reading, and point her in the direction. If she balks, I will follow my happiness. I can't stay like this.

First, thank god I found this site. I had an affair that lasted 3 yrs, until the wife found out just over a yr ago. Wife had an affair 20 years ago and decided to tell me about it 5 yrs ago. I wish she didn't, I really do. But I understand it was what she needed to do to heal. After the wife...

I just read the The things I have Learned as the Mono that you wrote. My good it was fantastic. I have a wife that can only see the world one way and I have to make a choice soon. So reading your words gave me great peace during these troubled times. I don't hate mono I just love more then...