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Thoughts in no particular order. Last year I had an encounter with two men, one whom I'd dated briefly, Ris and the other his long-time bi-curious friend, Muir. A few years ago Muir had expressed love and intrest for Ris (thinking himself to perhaps be gay) but Ris had be startled and "weirded...

well you succeeded in sending this one.

Thanks for the responses everyone. (gotta say, the list of a bunch of different scenarios was impressive....thanks for taking the time!!) Given me more to think about, and encouraging about all of you desiring to love and raise children well. I'll check out those other threads too. Thanks...

I'm curious what other people experiences are with paternal certainty and father roles. I don't yet have any children, but think often about the possibility. The man I am currently predominately partnered with (Lex) is clear that he doesn't want to have biological children of his own. But...

body feed back I've been following this thread, and think that BL is doing some brave processing. I left a "good" relationship last year because I felt I needed time to "do my own thing" and explore new loves, relationships, sex partners or whatever. I had been feeling stiffled in the...

isn't it just nice to know there are others exploring busting the preconceived "monogamy is the only right way" thing? ! :)

Thank you to everyone who's responded so far.....more to think about. I really appreciate knowing there are other people navigating these wonderful and weird relationship.... On one had I identify wth Jade's comment and think that perhaps my relationship with Adam is too emotionally...

I've had many experiences with Adam (see below for explanation) where I well up with tears....It seems magnetic almost, like when I'm in close proximity to him tears get pulled out of me. Sometimes they seem beautiful and sourced from our shared past, sometimes they feel out of fear or anger...