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Its only been 5 days of intense research and all consuming thoughts but I am already feeling much better. Rollercoaster highs and lows are starting to level out somewhat. I'm able to begin seeing a future with us again. We are communicating way deeper and better now than in the last decade. I...

Shes known this about herself for a long time. Never though i would ever entertain the thought and felt ashamed about it all her life. I really cant think of a worse place to live, judgemental wise on doing anything outside the "norm" Think coming out of the closet in mayberry

I had to google that term. Her last relationship is over. To much at stake for both parties. Guessing it wasnt as fun for him when i found out either. She has since told me she is not looking for or interested in meeting anyone until im ready. But i cant help but feel as though shes a...

Both me and my wife have been reading that exact book recommended by our therapist. Chapter by chapter for the last 6 days, discussing what points that hit home with each other. It is good but find myself scouring the internet for more identicle surcumstances and find people here who have been...

This is exactly what I'm looking for. Because I have no idea what how to answer these questions yet, nor have I thought about a lot of the points you just brought up. And I mean none. I don't know what to do. I was hoping for a rule book so to speak of how this should look and have realized...

Can you expand what you mean by Theme of rules? I thought the theme part was relationship with others though like i said before my writing could definitely be at fault for not conveying that better. Or am i totally missing what that question entails

Great advice. The core beliefs are easy for me and her. Breach those and its relationship re-evaluation. Stay or go. Pretty simple. Its the smaller issues. The ones you both are of opposite opinions. Similar to a normal couple argument. example: im not going to that function you want me to...

I have forgiven my wife for everything that has happened in the past. It still hurts when i go there but then i try to tell myself this realationship started with a clean slate after it came out and more importantly after she let me back in with brutal honesty. As backwards as this sounds, truth...

Thank you for your reply. I am 2 weeks in and trying to wrap my head around the possibility. I have flip flopped more than a fish out of water on this subject because that is exactly what i am at the moment. If i can get there as opposed to ripping apart my family i am willing to take every...

Also thank you for the instructions

Sorry, has not been faithful.

Hi all, this is my first ever attempt at reaching out online so please bare with me. I am no shakespeare when it comes to writting, spelling or grammar and normally dont communicate futher than a phone call, but here i am. Im 43 year old husband and father, have been in what i thought was a...