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Relationship with Ewe, 1000 miles away, has been a challenge. For the past 16 months, I have gone there or her here for 7-15 days per...

Howdy. Is he toxic and gaslighting. Stand your ground and don’t apologize unless something is really your problem. While my phone is...

Welcome. It can be daunting to wrap your head around that you are not being replaced. Keep talking with each other. While I love my...

Jealously comes and goes. How long for you or me is really not an issue. It is so different for each one of us. Just talk. Work through...

Have many conversations with your partner. I have one relationship outside my married. I am in the process of moving her from 1000 miles...

Welcome. There are many different paths to choose in Poly. Enjoy your stops here a d jump in.

Our approach is that my relationship with my wife remains between us as a couple. In like manner, my relationship with my Girlfriend...

Your marriage to your husband must always come first. If you cannot maintain your sexual relationship with both your husband and the...

I voted "no." Because I think it is ok for you to honor your own personal boundary of "I have always thought getting back with an ex is...

There is so much good information out there about polyamory. Do the best you can to read up. Meanwhile, make sure you take care of...

It is important the the two of you talk. He has a responsibility to communicate to you and reassure his desire for you. You also need...

This is moving very fast. Even though you had a secret interest in poly, you and your husband never discussed it, set boundaries, stated...

Howdy and welcome to the group. Poly is interesting. It take a great deal of work and commitment from all parties. Read read read...

I'm sorry you went through all that. In the end though? It sounds like he just wasn't able to meet your need for stability. Your need...

Breakups suck. It is hard to be alone after 13 years even if it wasn't good at the time of ending. Time will help give perspective. So...