Recent content by ultraviolet

Wow! I'm surprised by the responses. But thank you for taking the time, energy, thought to try and help me out. I'll think about what you wrote here. More responses and poll votes are still welcome! Thanks again. :)

Wow! My first reaction is stop having threesomes with them right away! Except on those once a month occasions when you're TRULY in the mood. Simply be honest about your reasons, that for you sex is something you prefer to be with just one other person, except when you're feeling unusually...

Hello aljs. My heart goes out to you and your wife in this difficult situation. I think your wife is being harsh and should be way more patient, comforting, and supportive towards you in dealing with this. It sounds like you're trying very hard, pushing through many painful emotions, and she is...

Hi mostlyclueless. If your agreement is to date people together then I don't think you're being unreasonable to voice your opinion if you think someone wouldn't be compatible with you or a good fit for the relationship. But you're right that you may never be poly enough for him. As it stands...

Hi there! My life partner and I are non-hierarchical polys with no veto. (Currently neither of us are seeing anyone else but we have in the past.) You can talk to me about this and feel free to PM me because I'm not very good at keeping up with threads. Although we don't have any veto over who...

Hello fellow polys! :) I come seeking your perspectives and I thank you in advance for helping me with a problem that has caused me many tears and many anxiety stomach cramps. I'll be replying to other people's posts to ensure reciprocity, that I give as well as ask/receive. I have been in a...