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I agree completely, and thankfully I've grown to the point where I could be supportive whether I was actively pursuing other relationships or not. I wasn't suggesting that finding my wife a connection is a proper solution to her difficulties. However, I do think that her current lack of...

Correct. She's more into something physical with someone she's developed a connection with. (Excluding her ex-- different situation.) I, on the other hand, need an emotional connection before pursuing the physical. She and I are very different people.

She made it fairly clear from the beginning that she wasn't looking for someone local. I think she sees it as too "dangerous" for herself. Too easy to let it develop into something more than she wants, I suppose. So, when she discovered I found someone local, I think she frowned on it for...

I think it would certainly help, as a counterbalance, if nothing else. She says she doesn't want something local, though. That being said, she is jealous of the fact that I have someone local and so readily accessible.

Oh, I have certainly learned my lesson about not sharing too many details. She has most definitely acknowledged the hypocrisy in her feelings. And let me be clear, she has not asked me to stop dating or to end my relationship. However, her difficulties manifest themselves in such an...

When my wife suggested opening the marriage 3 years ago, it was with her ex in mind (which I became aware of). However, that summer she saw her ex on a few occasions, but didn't go through with it. The topic was essentially shelved at that point, and nothing was discussed again until her...

Thank you for the responses. My wife is looking and researching, but at the moment, her emotions appear to be trumping logic. I'm trying to find a local counselor as well (as did she), but none appear to be in the immediate area. Still looking, though. Please do not think that because I did...

I am at a complete loss. I honestly don't know if there is a good answer, but I'm hoping for more perspective. Last September, my wife came out to me as poly. We had previously discussed opening our marriage (2 or 3 years earlier), I gave my approval to her, and in September she admitted to...

Welcome Adam! Welcome aboard, Adam! The strength that you and Evie have shown in making it through such a long time away from one another is incredible. And to come through even stronger on the other side - magnificent! Cheers to you both!

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I never would have caught that, Evie! LOL! Thanks! ;)

Hi everyone - I honestly can't believe how my life has changed in the past 17 days. I am happily married - ridiculously happy - to the love of my life. We've been together for 17 years, married for 9. I love her more every day. 17 days ago, my wife came out to me as poly. We have had...