Recent content by UnsureNewbie

Wow! Thank you all so much for your wisdom and willingness to share. It seriously is so comforting when I haven't yet reached out to any friends. . I am not close enough with any of them to feel comfortable burdening them with all this. It is consoling to know others have had to deconstruct and...

Thanks for your replies. Like I said before, it's possible that I'm not doing a very good job at explaining things very well. - I DEFINITELY do not think my husband intended to have a panic attack. Not at all. I don't think you can intend those kinds of things. The panic attack happened as he...

Just to add: I realize there is a lot of value in your response, GalaGirl. I"m going to take more time to read it over and ask myself these questions. I've just re-read it and some stuff resonated so, thanks again.

Ok, thanks for responding. I did ask mod to move the post; sorry about posting incorrectly. I should have paid closer attention. Alright, GalaGirl: Thank you so much for taking the time to write so much. I'll admit that I'm not great with words and possibly have not explained events well or in...

I just wanted to add that I don't know if I even consented willingly. I think in Mexico, I said yes to hold my marriage together and it wasn't the time or place to have that discussion; I felt so alone. I definitely didn't feel like I consented to the relationship because it wasn't even...

Thanks for the replies all. I guess I'll address the questions. First-I am new and didn't realize where I posted, so totally not my intention..sorry! Should I move it? If so, how do I do that? I can give the backstory to this if it's helpful but will try my best not to be long-winded. My...

Hi all. I'm a 29F in a 7yr mono marriage, recently opening up? I don't even know how to describe it. At this point in my journey, I'm feeling rather unsure whether I'm polyamorous, monogamous or anything of the sort because I've never questioned any of this. I was raised but am now Ex-Mormon...