Recent content by unwitty

I love this description, because I honestly felt like I was coming out of the closet. I had to tell Ned that I felt this way. I know it doesn`t match society`s norms, but it's how I feel. Week one of being open and honest is kind of hurting Ned, because he is trying to accept it, but it's going...

I let him read my post and the responses. He has accepted it, or, at least, is willing to start to learn to accept it. He said I am a shitty liar and he has known for the last few weeks that I have felt differently about Tom. Wow. I am the luckiest women alive.

I know what I am doing is not polyamory. But I feel that I would like to live the polyamorous lifestyle. I just don`t know how to transition from cheating to poly.

Why can something that is wrong make me feel so happy? I don't know how/when/if I should tell my fiance. I don't know how/when/if I could ever break it off with my lover.

Warning- long. I am engaged to Ned and would consider us to have a happy, healthy relationship. We have been together for four years and are getting married in August. I met Tom at work and felt a strong physical attraction. As we began to talk more I really developed some emotional bonds with...