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Welcome Cerdraenor!

Thanks Ravenscroft!

Welcome pob!

Welcome PolyMatt54! Good luck on your poly exploration with your partner. I also appreciate your interests apart from poly. As someone who has struggled off and on with depression and anxiety (but only to a mild degree), I can appreciate the importance of this work. But shouldn't we be trying...

Thanks Al99, Ravenscroft, and Lunabunny. Your insights are valued, especially as many of you have “been there, done that”, or are also figuring it out. Also, a quick correction to a typo in my initial response: it should have read “clarification” rather than “clarfication”. (I didn't see that...

Hi Bedazzled, I appreciate your question, as I'm trying to find something similar myself. I'm just curious – what is it about this potential relationship configuration or dynamic that appeals to you (of two bi guys versus two straight guys or a guy and a gal)? I'm just trying to better...

Thanks! Thank you Kevin for the warm welcome. And Mags, I appreciate the clarfication on what “secondary" means. I suppose I could happily be a primary or secondary partner if I met the right person or couple, as well as love a Dom/me and/or sub, depending on the particular chemistry and...

Hello everyone! I've always been interested in polyamory, although never pursued it, and just today discovered this forum. Although I've had several deep and meaningful relationships of the traditional sort – what some might call "straight" relationships – that I was quite happy in, I do...