Recent content by VelvetArt

the drinking certainly isn't helping. but since none of the involved are here to see the bad side of it, I see no reason not to take solace in it. I am aware it's a problem I should deal with. It's just not one I'm ready to deal with yet. Thank you for your cautious and polite concern...

I feel like the "poly" label is the only one that fits. I adore my husband in a very real and passionate manner... he's the only man I could ever see myself living with. Before he went on the road we lived together for 13 years. He's only been OTR for two years, and yet I worry we've grown...

two full time men in my life.. and an open hall pass... and I feel so alone.... Maybe because I'm not a priority to anyone...

Thank you. I really wanted to hear this. My BF is around a lot more than my hubby... and while I'm pretty sure his wife is the only woman who can deal with his shit long term... I love him more than I care to admit. that said, I thought he was going to take the sting out of my visit with my...

No, not every trucker has to pay for his rig. My hubby and I were baited in by higher "by mile" pay, and low truck payments (relative to by mile pay). He's working so that I can take classes full time. I'm his retirement plan. Last year, money was GREAT. First year making payments on the...

I honestly don't know. Some times I see him every other week for a month. Sometimes I see him twice a year. He's a truck driver, where we live isn't on major trucking lines, and the company works for is three hours away from us. Plus this year we're only barely the black. The truck is costing us...

Life never goes as planned So my husband came home for the first time in 7 months. It was wonderful to see him, and I wish he could have stayed longer than 28 hours. However, I'm very happy because that was 18 more hours than I thought I was getting. It was an eye opening experience for me...

Thank you. I don't expect coming out to my mother in law to be easy, but at least I won't feel like a liar anymore. I still can't tell my dad.. he'd be disappointed in me, but try really hard to be supportive... but lucky for me, he's several counties over. It's easier to keep from him...

So, my drama is mostly over now. It was as follows: My husband's recently widowed mother moved in 7/10 of a mile from my house. I went to help her move in, because she doesn't have a lot of people to count on. She's uneducated but highly intelligent and we aren't "out" to her yet, so it...

I'm not ignoring you're responses.... I've had some family drama... I knew it was coming, but it still hit kinda suddenly. I'll be back in a few days, thank you for your logical yet kind responses.

Hi! My name is Rayne. I'm a 38 year old mother of two, in a very loving and devoted marriage to my very best friend of 15 years. 13 years ago, we opened our marriage to swinging. Then it kind of morphed to just being open to random hookups so long as my husband knew about it. A little over 2...