Recent content by VeronicaE

Thanks dingedheart! I had read that thread months ago but I didn't remember about it, probably because I never thought it would happen to me. It reads differently now. So what happened to your relationship structure, did you divorce? I don't think I like the "fake it till you feel it". I don't...

Thank you all for your replies. We started talking about opening up the marriage a year and a half ago. I had fallen in love with someone else, but didn't act upon it. It was the trigger to start talking, though. We do talk everything through, but I had a hard time getting the courage to...

Hi. I've been married for 15 years now, been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for +5 months. We see each other every Friday to Sunday. Lately, I don't really feel lust for my husband anymore. We can have sex, and I eventually turn on and kind of enjoy it, but I don't really...

I guess not, I was being ironic... ;)

Sounds like fun. ;) Thanks for answering.

Your function being...

I looked and read and searched, NeonKaos, I REALLY did, but I haven't found a list of those. :o

The Edukators http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0408777/ It's German, I loved it! With a happy ending and all! :)

Thanks for asking this, I was wondering about it myself (and I'm a woman, if you thought for one minute it would only happen to men :). It feels like looking for the needle in the haystack. I feel as frustrated as you sound, yul!

Thanks to everybody for responding. I basically sent him away on the grounds that he was cheating on his wife. Still, I have this uneasy feeling about myself now. I feel it's patronizing to tell someone how to live their life. And I feel I kind of placed myself above him, in a way, by implying...

Shit! (thanks!);)

Well, what you just wrote there scares the s... out of me, being the "poly" and my husband being the 'mono" (it's awful to label us like that, too...)

I will. I do not feel like talking him into anything, though (meaning poly). I don't intend to be a poly-activist (except for translating to Spanish some books on the subject, maybe, which would benefit a lot of people who don't speak English).

Yeah... when I wrote here, I thought "maybe there's a viewpoint, an aspect of it that makes it alright to go ahead, and I'm just failing to see it". But it seems there wasn't, darn! :D

Thank you all for taking the time to answer. It's what I needed to hear to make up my mind and nip it in the bud. I consider myself somewhat repressed, so I though maybe I was overreacting or something. I guess I have to trust myself more on these matters. Mono, I'll search your posts...