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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    Men, when you tell your longtime partner "I want to start over with you as friends, because we never were, and see where things go from there.", is this a clear statement or is it saying something else?
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    😢😢😢 Thank you...
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    We don't. And things have gotten even worse, but I'm focusing on myself, now.
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    Surprisingly, being given this kind of treatment from him has me communicating and hanging out with people I normally wouldn't have who enjoy my company. I would normally have my nose in an art or animation program instead while also giving much attention to my S/O. But now, I've become more...
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    Oh wow. This is a lot of information, and solid points, to process. He didn't. It was avoided. This has me think back to Wednesday morning...the day she was supposed to fly back to her place. The door was open, for a change, so I went in. They were both in the bed with fingers entwined and...
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    Thank you for more of your help and insight! I told him I was being neglected and he denied it. I sent him the article, mentioning it described a lot of things that were going on in the relationship. I don't even know if he read the whole thing before telling me it didn't. He asked what the...
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    I've told him twice, so far, the specific things I wanted via message and vocally. I also told him while I was happy that he was now very happy, I was also jealous of her. He latched on to the jealousy part but, that was several days ago. As time goes on, his outlook will have to change. As to...
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    Thank you so much for your help and advice Sunray and GalaGirl! She was originally supposed to stay for just a week. Then that week was planned to become 2, but she cut it short so she could fly back home today, pack her things, and move in with me and my S/O. Earlier in the first week, I...
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    When the Primary Becomes The "Who Are You Again?"

    I originally had a much longer explanation, but here's the less-than-200-words-condensed-version: My S/O and I tried poly once before. The person we were with wasn't a good fit—now there is a new gf in the mix and she is PERFECT for my S/O. I have never seen him so happy before, throughout...
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