Recent content by Villo

Thank you all for the great advice. There are a lot of things to think about. I also find that one of biggest hangup's is with him. It is also the first time I'm seeing her "deal" with a relationship. I've been with her for almost 10 years and I never have seen her handle a relationship...

Hi all, thank you in advance for reading this. Slight background info, my wife S and I have been practicing poly for about a year and a half. Her current boyfriend J is married and they've been dating for about a year. Over the last 5 months J and his wife C moved further away. Still driving...

Thanks Marcus. I realize I can't compare what we have to what she has with her friend. What we have was built over a longer period of time and lots of experiences with each other. In the end I am happier with her, and if this is what she needs to do to be happy now, then I just let her...

Thanks everyone. Your words and resources help a lot. Taking this slow and communicating everything is the way I'm going. I want to get to a good place with this and even explore it more myself. It's just a lot right now and with no sounding boards personally this was a great help.

How did you handle the first time your spouse told you they were in love with another person? We've been married three years and together for nine. No kids. Started exploring open relationships and polyamory because of BDSM. She wanted to be able to be physical with other people in her play...

Well for us, we have boundaries on sexual intercourse. We are open to all other interactions. Since we are new to this we thought that would be a good rule. There have been other times that they have made out and fooled around that I know of. But this is the first time she's said it as a...

Hey everyone, I was hoping to get some advice. I am going away this weekend. My wife, Skyla, has made plans per usual to hang out with her "friend" who she is interested in pursuing, dating, etc. Last night was the first time she told me out right that she was planning on "hooking up" with...

Thank you CielDuMatin! I wish you well also.

I wanted to take some time to talk about more journey and exploration. Over the last year my wife, Skyla, and I discovered our mutual interest in the bdsm world. Through this she met a man who she connects and plays with in that realm. During her time with him she discovered that she really...

Hello everyone nice to meet you! I have been reading on this site for a few months now and have finally decided to create an account and engage in conversation. I am 29 and married to a wonderful woman. Over the last year we have been exploring things on the bdsm side of life and that has led...