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    If she Truly Loved Me she would...

    Honestly, this can basically be summed up as the following: "If my partner truly loved me, s/he would be psychic." Any time the idea of "well, if so-and-so TRULY loved me, then ______." comes up, it should be examined for the presence of mind-reading expectations. This includes things that...
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    Hello ... again.

    Figured I'd pop back over after my lengthy exile. I'm a substantially calmer human being, and have my head on considerably straighter these days. After my ... rather humiliating and also humbling experience here, I really wasn't sure I wanted to come back. But - there are sadly few places on...
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    Wiggling Out of Tight Spots (Violet's Blog)

    To those of you still posting in this thread, please read my "Wiggling Out of A Tight Spot" blog. A conclusion has been reached that I'll post up soon. Gwendolyn, thank you for so concisely explaining the definition of a cowgirl. I really appreciate it. I've been trying to explain that, and...
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    HMA/Violet's ongoing poly experience

    To those of you still posting in this thread, please read my "Wiggling Out of A Tight Spot" blog. A conclusion has been reached that I'll post up soon. Gwendolyn, thank you for so concisely explaining the definition of a cowgirl. I really appreciate it. I've been trying to explain that, and...
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    "Trapped in Poly" (HMA asks for ideas)

    To those of you still posting in this thread, please read my "Wiggling Out of A Tight Spot" blog. A conclusion has been reached that I'll post up soon. Gwendolyn, thank you for so concisely explaining the definition of a cowgirl. I really appreciate it. I've been trying to explain that, and...
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    Wiggling Out of Tight Spots (Violet's Blog)

    Hoo gracious. I'm not letting this thread devolve into a big HMA vs. The World Of Poly and HIS personal mistakes. All 4 of us in this situation have made mistakes, and the big problem here is that while I will vent and ask for help here, I tend to not always post when things are good. That's...
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    HMA/Violet's ongoing poly experience

    Hoo gracious. I'm not letting this thread devolve into a big HMA vs. The World Of Poly and HIS personal mistakes. All 4 of us in this situation have made mistakes, and the big problem here is that while I will vent and ask for help here, I tend to not always post when things are good. That's...
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    "Trapped in Poly" (HMA asks for ideas)

    Hoo gracious. I'm not letting this thread devolve into a big HMA vs. The World Of Poly and HIS personal mistakes. All 4 of us in this situation have made mistakes, and the big problem here is that while I will vent and ask for help here, I tend to not always post when things are good. That's...
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    HMA/Violet's ongoing poly experience

    Violet's Side of the Story (was "Wiggling Out Of A Tight Spot") A continuation of this thread: HMA's Side of the Story I'll replace this text with a link to my situation and such once I'm done with this post and I can wade through and find it. Since disclaimers are apparently necessary in my...
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    "Trapped in Poly" (HMA asks for ideas)

    Violet's Side of the Story (was "Wiggling Out Of A Tight Spot") A continuation of this thread: HMA's Side of the Story I'll replace this text with a link to my situation and such once I'm done with this post and I can wade through and find it. Since disclaimers are apparently necessary in my...
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    HMA/Violet's ongoing poly experience

    (Part the third because the forum REALLY fucking hates long posts.) I think HMA is so done with all this - hell, he's STATED he is - that the only thing he's *WILLING* to see at this point is his own point of view. He's so sure that if everyone would just trust him and act on HIS perceptions...
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    Wiggling Out of Tight Spots (Violet's Blog)

    (Part the third because the forum REALLY fucking hates long posts.) I think HMA is so done with all this - hell, he's STATED he is - that the only thing he's *WILLING* to see at this point is his own point of view. He's so sure that if everyone would just trust him and act on HIS perceptions...
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    "Trapped in Poly" (HMA asks for ideas)

    (Part the third because the forum REALLY fucking hates long posts.) I think HMA is so done with all this - hell, he's STATED he is - that the only thing he's *WILLING* to see at this point is his own point of view. He's so sure that if everyone would just trust him and act on HIS perceptions...
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    HMA/Violet's ongoing poly experience

    (Part deux because the forum hates long posts.) *Ohm*. I'm completely willing to acknowledge that a lot of my hatred is probably ill-placed. She didn't do anything THAT HORRIBLY HEINOUS that should elicit such a response from me. I think I hate the situation more than I hate her, but it's just...
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    "Trapped in Poly" (HMA asks for ideas)

    (Part deux because the forum hates long posts.) *Ohm*. I'm completely willing to acknowledge that a lot of my hatred is probably ill-placed. She didn't do anything THAT HORRIBLY HEINOUS that should elicit such a response from me. I think I hate the situation more than I hate her, but it's just...
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