Thanks, that is good feedback. I think that this is something I sometimes step myself into, not something I am externally pressured towards. I'll keep this in mind!
She has definitely owned up to it, apologized, has been very intentional about not repeating past mistakes when seeing new people, etc. I don't think she's trying to get me to shoulder anything. If she could, I'm sure she'd rather shoulder all the negative feelings as she fully accepts...
Hello all! I've been practicing polyamory for going on seven years, and something that happened a couple of years ago recently came back up with a partner. It's been a source of some insecurity for several years and I've done an enormous amount of processing around it, but have never 100%...