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Update: I was trying to communicate with her and she was shutting me down. She didn't understand why we needed to keep talking about it. It turns out there was more. She acted before coming to me and talking to me about being able to have her needs met. I was really working through the mistake...

While I read and read again, take in and process all of your words, advice, opinions etc., etc., I just want to thank you all for helping me have a safe outlet where I'm understood and heard. Please know that you are all shining a beautiful light on me and I couldn't be more grateful. I did...

I could tell something had changed in their friendship. It had been riding on my shoulders for a couple weeks. I was in denial because I thought she understood our previous talks. This morning we were discussing our friend, who is married and slowly coming out as gay. His wife doesn't know. She...

This is a true statement. I don't know what they talked about. She keeps trying to tell me this isn't all her fault. Not knowing what she told him makes it harder. I'm not mad at him. He isn't my wife.

I think my first mistake was assuming she knew that my best friend wouldn't be the best option. We had only barely started to discuss her being with someone else. When we discussed things, I expressed that I was not ready to see her be with someone. So in my mind <-- stupid...she would have...

I'm not sure where to start, so hopefully you can dissect my ramblings. Me: Lesbian. I have multiple health issues. One is called lichen sclerosis. No, it doesn't turn me into a werewolf. It means that the tissue in my vaginal area is very thin and painful. This has caused me to not feel sexual...