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Kvein: yes to all of your questions (except probably I don't see her staying as something I need to trust - she doesn't owe it to me to stay, so either she does, or she doesn't - I'll deal with whatever comes to pass). We talked about the other issues and agreed that it's not a closed door -...

Kevin: it's all very new so not a large amount of data to go on from but yeah, so far she's trying - even harder than before - to be around me and offer support and love, especially because it's pretty obvious I'm struggling. We'll see how it goes from here. Rising: thanks for the reassurance...

Magdlyn, I'm going to assume your intention is to help and offer an objective perspective, which is why I'm going to ignore some issues around your post in order to address the rest. As I mentioned in the original posts you quoted, these are my own insecurities and fears that come up when I'm...

Thanks, Kevin. Yeah, I've tried to pinpoint the worst offenders. I think the most prominent one is the sex/passion area (where it's an objective fact that I can't really offer a lot, due to low libido and other things), and close second are emotion, mystery (after 7 years together I can hardly...

Hi folks, I did quite a bit of reading before I registered, so I apologise in advance for posting the n-th variation of this topic. But I could really use some advice and help processing things, and there's no-one in my circle that I can actually talk this through with. So a bit of...