WeyldFalcon

My wife and I recently opened our marriage. She has a paramour, and I would like to find some non-monogamous friends to help me grow in a healthy way in the community. I am working on fully embracing ENM. I have read Building Open Relationships, The Ethical Slut, Polywise, Polysecure, and Multiamory, and listened to the Multiamory podcast. I am striving to enter this lifestyle with intention. I am working on getting to know myself better so that I can create helpful boundaries and better understand myself. I have also been answering poly relationship questionnaires to help think about questions I might not have thought of on my own.
I want to be intentional and well-informed before I ask the universe to send a paramour my way.
I am sure there is lots more I can learn and experience, and I plan to do just that. I am going to keep finding as much information as I can through books, podcasts, and friends.
I am looking for friends to get to know better and learn from. Where things go from there we shall see

A little about me:
My daughter is one of the most important parts of my world. She is 11 and just at the cusp of becoming a teenager or at least thinking she is. It is such a volatile age and also such a tender emotion-filled age.