Recent content by WhiteCloud

Thank you GorgeousKitten! It is great to hear about your story, and how time (and new partners) helped ease things. It certainly gives me hope :)) And thank you Vanquish :) Yes, I feel like I have really dealt with a lot of my issues for now, and fully embrace everything. What has helped me the...

Thank you so much ButtercupGirl and LovingRadiance! You have both helped me a lot. I think I just really needed to hear that not being perfect at this from day one wasn't a sign that I was fooling myself. It's a scary thought, this fooling oneself business :) I was prepared for difficult...

Thank you LovingRadiance Thank you for your reply and your practical advice :) I feel I am doing a lot of work towards these things, and your reply helps point me in the direction I need to focus on even more. I think my confusion comes mostly from the fact that I don't know where I stand...

Hi everyone :) I've been reading a lot of posts here during the past few weeks, and feel it is time to introduce myself and ask for some guidance. I am very new to poly and concerned about how hard the adaptation period is, despite my intellectual beliefs about it. I (female, straight, 37...