Hey Falone. I understand completely where all parties are coming from. I walked a mile in those shoes.
I remember the first time I came home with marks.Hubby and I were walking into Walmart an I was walking a little gingerly. When I explained why... he flipped. I was about in tears when he...
"The problem is I occasionally come home with bruises and my husband finds them upsetting." detritus
My husband felt very similar to yours, in that he hated/got angry when he saw the bruises. Here's how I fixed it. I got in touch with a member of the kink community that was willing to SHOW...
I do NOT think of poly as being a kink ! LOL Its just that most people on places like AFF or POF (vanilla sites) do not have an understanding of anything kinky. I find that poly people have at least SOME understanding of the lifestyle . Poly persons are more open minded
Am new to this site. 46 year old retired married female. Am not new to poly or BDSM. Looking for a new poly partner. YES hubby knows lol. We are completely honest with each other.
Am tired of the vanilla sites. Difficult to find what I am looking for when everyone around you seems to be...