Recent content by wiley

Sorry if that doesn't make too much sense, its middle of night with me and I should be sleeping, having problems with that recently because of this stuff, and that doesn't help either

Galagirl, that's written really well and gives me a lot to consider. What you say worries me too, and I don't know a lot of the answers to what you ask, I'm not even sure how I could produce an answer. I don't think everything in a relationship is from a joyful place, in my experience they...

No, Vanadium's around ours a lot anyway, they spend the night together downstairs sometimes but I found myself just avoiding him as much as possible, things seem a bit easier with that following our night out. No I meant more like, I could engage with multiple partners or I could not, I don't...

Good advice, I guess I'm not quite sure what the convention is regarding that. I mean when a lot of your life/best stories to tell have been spent with T, do I just erase her from those or just focus on the parts that I experienced?

Also have been reading people saying they prefer names to just initials so have included some names (a little chemistry joke) if you'd prefer to use.

Hi everyone, seems to be some big philosophical discussions going on here. All this discussion of NRE lalas, I don't know to be honest. I know T has some perfect vision of poly, that V and I will be best buds and all live together as one big happy family, I don't see this happening, I like being...

So T tells me she's pretty much in love with V, she wants to be able to live all three of us together and tonight they officially are gf & bf, I'm so overwhelmed right now and she's out. I don't know how to handle this and it seems like everything at once. My heart hurts. This went from 0 to...

Thanks guys, yeah we are going to go on a date on monday to spend some quality time together (we have kids, so this is always a bit tricky to organise), I'm feeling like being more romantic than I have been recently, bought flowers today! V stayed round last night and T slept downstairs with him...

Hi everyone, long time reader first time poster. Me and T are in a poly relationship for a while, I'm more naturally monogamous (in fact ours is really the only relationship I've been in my life, except for a couple of 2 week things) but happy to see what happens with other women whilst T is...