Recent content by WillI

Oh how gut-wrenching, I sure hope I will not ever have to go though the same.

Thanks for that. Food for thought. My gears are turning.

Hi everyone, thank you for the very enriching responses. Kevin, I appreciate the trouble that you took to answer my questions. I see, makes sense about the hypothetical. Perhaps I assumed that they might have discussed boundaries in the past, especially if the husband lives overseas. I am...

Thank you Natja, do you care to expand upon the risks? Indeed circumstances dictate that I am apt to follow the primary/secondary model because I have a child and a well-working relationship with my wife - there is an investment there. The sort of drama I was thinking of was: - Lack of...

ColorsWolf, you sound like Kahlil Gabran (I just finished reading him). I prefer not to use Lover in a context wherein people insist that the alignment of genitals is implied. I prefer to use names. It is better for people to know each other by names, rather than labels or categories that I...

Thanks Thanks Emm, that is most helpful. Unsurprisingly, social conventions in support of polyamory were never taught to me. One other question - how do I add the automated signature that goes at the bottom of every post? I've been through all the configuration pages and don't see it.

Hi, I am new to this forum, and polyamory. I'm a 34 year old male grad student married to a female (N) of roughly the same age. Having read many posts here, I am absolutely delighted to find such a thoughtful, diverse group of people. For a long time I've had struggles with strong feelings...