Recent content by william81

Damn, sorry, yes. I mean sex. It does pay to be more precise with a less familiar audience :) As to your questions, that's exactly what I'm trying to identify. The way I see it, the jealousy that I feel could boil down to any one or (or much more likely a nice mélange of) the following...

That all having been said then, it sounds like you need to develop a both sense of safety/trust and an understanding of space in the relationship. Neither is terribly easy to develop - especially, in my experience, in the first ~6 months of the relationship - however the development of this...

Have you had a conversation with him in which you express your desire to date other people? Does he know that you're polyamorous and that you desire more openness in the relationship? There's no reason, if you both love one-another, that you can't develop the relationship into a more...

Thanks Kevin, Sorry for the delayed response. I appreciate the links, I've read the first one before and found it helpful at least in framing a sense of understanding around the concept. I'll take a read through the others as well, I'm sure they'll be equally as illuminating. It's funny...

Thanks kdt! That's my issue at the moment and I know it's irrational, so I'm certain that I'll get through it. It's just nice to have a place to ask advice, read other people's stories and, I guess, just release the pressure. This seems like a wonderful community, so while my immediate needs...

Thanks for the welcome! I'll drop you a PM.

I'm relatively new to polyamory, I was with my last partner for 10 years, 8 of which were monogamous and my current relationship of just over a year is polyamorous. Up to now, outside play has been kept to a relative minimum, generally when either of us is out of town, but very recently my...

Hi All, My name is Will', I live in BC and I'm quite new to polyamory. I've been dating my current partner for about a year now and we've been open - at least in spirit - from the beginning. My previous relationship was a 10 year one, most of which was monogamous and very unhappy toward the...