Recent content by windmarkbob

Hi there! Any input/insight on just how screwed up my situation has become? Thanks.

I don't think it's possible to "overcommunicate", but I do think it's possible to communicate too much at any given time. Sometimes a person can only handle so much information to be processed, and the processing can take some time. Once they've reached the maximum amount of info they can...

I'm a fairly confrontational person in cases like this, so if it were me, I'd probably bring it up and start a conversation about what you're seeing/hearing/feeling when it comes to their behaviour toward each other. Get it all out in the open. If things go from bad to worse, walk away for a...

I think he's feeling attacked for some opinions he stated that you aren't attacking, and not looking *specifically* at the particular statement/opinion that you are being critical of as a non-sequitur. Hmm... After re-reading the first thread, where this started, I think I see where the first...

I wish Mono wouldn't leave over this. I really *think* he's seeing personal, ad hominem attacks where there aren't any. I *think* we've got a bit of a communications disconnect in that the specific statements that are being *ripped* for being logical fallacies are statements that Mono made...

I know I'm new here, but I'm gonna chime in on this one. From a strict *logical* standpoint, Joreth and Ceoli are right in calling a spade a spade or, in this case, a non-sequitor a non-sequitor. (Joreth, you ROCK!)

Umm, I didn't know there was anything that said you had to "love equally". That whole concept sounds broken to me. I just fell in love with a new interest, and now am, for the first time in my life, romantically involved with two wonderful women. I've been married to one for 21+ years and...

My 16 year old son is oblivious and my 17 year old daughter already suspects. Of course we've always been fairly open about sexuality around our kids in terms of answering their questions and letting them engage us in a dialogue (regardless of how uncomfortable it might have been). I was...

Avidly GM'd a BUNCH of D&D back in the day. I miss 2nd edition :( . I then found myself hooked on Rolemaster/MERP quickly, so started running it a lot. The only online I took the time to play, and get quickly addicted to, used the old Rolemaster combat engine and the Shadow World setting, and...

My wife brought this up to me last week, and we've discussed this in some detail. Our relationship, our marriage, is special, but the D/s is even more special to her and it is not something she wants shared. Me domming anyone else is more than she's willing to put up with, and that works out...

Thank you for the clarification. :) Yeah, I can see how it would make it seem like I had cheapened the whole thing with that flippant remark. Being flippant and sarcastic are a couple of defense mechanisms I've honed to razor-sharp lethality and I use them when I shouldn't sometimes. And...

Redpepper, I agree with everything you said in your first paragraph 100%. While I would probably like to think Trevor's an asshole, I really can't. I like the guy, and as I've told him before, I understand jealousy, been there done that, and likely to be there again, to some degree. I am NOT...

Last update... Well, the more time we spend dealing with this, the more convinced I am that to some degree I'm a catalyst that has brought to light some long-term issues in their marriage. So I'm minimizing the active drama in my life and putting the ball in both of their courts, cutting and...

News... if you care to hear. Trevor is feeling like crap for what happened. He wants us all to remain friends. He *says* he's okay with Amber and me still throwing darts on Friday nights. She told him that was non-negotiable. He's falling all over himself apologizing now. He's saying some...

Sheesh, where to start? Trevor took his pleasure with my lovely wife Jolene, then said he felt like he cheated on Amber, and stopped everything from going any further. To make light of the situation, I was the only one who didn't get laid. On a more serious note, he has basically said it's...