Recent content by Wizzard

So, you're working full time, and when you do get home, you're confronted with people harassing you for something you're not comfortable with? The 2 people who don't work sit home, flirting and scheming? I agree with nycindie, that doesn't sound very loving and nurturing. It SOUNDS like you...

Here's what I would say. Meet with her, but have no expectations. If it doesn't turn into a sex-filled romp, that's okay. You got to spend time with a friend. If it does, great. You got to spend some time with a friend naked. But whatever you do, make sure she understands. Don't just drop it...

I have not seen the show, so cannot comment on that. The only thing I have to say is: How do we know you're actually involved with the show? The only piece of information you've given is a free yahoo.com address, which, frankly, I can get a fairly official sounding email at... right now...

I was reading along, kind of thinking, "Wow, this guy has it rough, until I came to this: Why, after 10 years, is her mother (of all people) suddenly interfering in your sex life, and demanding a clean bill of sexual health? I know I'm very new in this community, but this sends up MASSIVE red...

We don't live in the same city, and the subject honestly never came up, not since they got married, anyway. What has changed, as I said, is that Nanny's health issues have gone to a simmer rather than a boil. Things aren't as bad (while it's a couple of chronic conditions that we'll be living...

GG - good call on the weak links. I will put my addled brain to work turning over what I know of Nanny to see what obstacles in our relationship I can find. Even after nearly 20 years, the woman manages to surprise me with her grace and intelligence... maybe not daily, but weekly. I obviously...

Sorry for the long delay in replying. And, btw, I was lazy when I started calling my wife Mrs Wizzard. It's now annoying me. So I'm changing it to Nanny, for reason that are amusing to me, if nobody else. Anne - Without replying point by point (because I am in a bit of a rush), I will say, yes...

Oh, good thought. Plus, it can be a longer conversation if we're driving - although the consequences of a freak out would, I guess, be physically dangerous (she does the driving), I in no way would anticipate that. Thanksgiving, I believe we have a drive ahead of us, so maybe on the way back...

Thank you, GG, for the somewhat boilerplate response. Not that there's a problem with that. There's a reason those exist... And there are definitely some good things to thing about in it, even though I hate bulletpoints. Let me be clear about a couple of things: First off, this isn't an...

I'm a 44 yr old (as of this writing) heterosexual male (well, let's just say I'm about a 1, 1.5 on the Kinsey scale), married for nearly 20 years, 3 children, all grown. I was involved in a poly relationship many years ago, before my wife. My GF at the time and I had a number of threesomes...