Recent content by Wjm2000

Just reread, and it sounded like I I was blaming the advice I received here in my last paragraph. I was not. There is no way anyone could have known what I was going through, especially since I watered it down because I knew she would read my post. She was very upset from the replies I...

It has been a few years since my first post here. I wanted to share how it went and how I am doing. My wife poly-bombed me and jumped into and out of several relationships within the first couple of months. I spent a year we watching her plan and do activities that I had asked her so many times...

I do not believe she has been propping me up. I have only had about 4 weeks of therapy so far. I have only been seeking reassurance since this came about, which is normal, considering we are transitioning. The man she is dating has only been around about a month. I'm not sure if I came off a...

Thank you for your replies. I have been reacting constantly and really had no support system that would understand this outside of my wife. I wish I would have posted here sooner. We were monogamous at the time. I hesitate to tell this story, as it was a very bumpy start and I feel like I...

Hi everyone, I am not here to bash my wife, as I love her dearly and she is very important to me. She asked me to open our relationship two and a half months ago, in early August. At the time she was sexting a coworker in another state. I was taken by complete surprise. She said she was...

That is awesome!! Thank you so much for the welcome.

Hello, I am very new to the lifestyle. My wife and I decided to take this direction in our relationship. It is all very new to me and I have struggled a bit with the idea and fear of losing something in my primary relationship. I am looking for positive resources in helping me understand and...