clarification
Just to answer some questions that perhaps I wasn't clear enough about.
I'm not asking her to change her relationship with her GF or stop loving or dating her. I believe the Gf's BPD cycles will eventually do that. I do ask questions of the wife in regard to how she is doing and...
I need advice on how to make my requests during an upcoming negotiation with my wife. We have always been non-monogamous, but during a time of my depression for me, she got a GF. no discussion before hand or frankly, even since then.
I have no idea what our relationship boundries are. and I...