Recent content by WonderingSue

I agree that there are two separate issues (poly and kinky), and I wonder if she mentioned kinky as a way to let me down easy. I am trying to maintain the friendship and act "normal'. It was her comment implying her gf's gf can't change that led me to wonder if most polys feel like she did...

Would like your opinions on something that has been bothering me. I let a crush know that I liked her and she responded that she needed someone who was heavily into kink (s&m), and knew I would not be able to provide that. We didn't even discuss that I am interested in poly. (When we first met...

Thank you for the suggestions, Daraya and Cindie. I think she knows that I have a crush but she is somewhat shy and submissive. I'm afraid I'll have to take the initiative but that's intimidating. She is just so much more experienced than me, and I have fear of rejection issues. Daraya, I do...

I've been reading and have learned a lot about being poly, communication, honesty from this and other websites, but still am having a hard time taking action. A little about me: gay female, previously mono but open to poly, vanilla. I met a woman on OKCupid over a year ago who identifies as...