Recent content by WonderinGuy

The worry is always there even for the most hardened of open minded and self confessed amazing lovers, but then the worry is also always there in monogamous relationships with regards to cheating. There will always, always be someone better at something... and no one is absolute perfect...

Me and my girlfriends other boyfriend are fluid bonded with her, the guys are both straight. I'm not really interested in seeing other women so I'm low risk. As we're in an open relationship we've agreed if we do sleep with someone else without a condom then its cool but ensure we tell each...

Any God and any religion is heavily influenced into influencing our way of life. Fact = religious endocrine, its existed for thousands of years. Not my opinion, its just fact. That is western civilisation. It doesn't matter what I say there will always be people who disagree with this in some...

KC43, I really do appreciate what you're saying. And I realise its a LOT to talk about. Myself though, born in 1981 into a British culture of a time when there was almost no one who was practising any religion, until after the USA 9/11 attacks. At that point after the 9/11 attacks I think the...

The dom/sub relationship thing is strange lol - don't get me wrong though, whatever floats someone's boat its all good as far I'm concerned. Regards to bondage, I remember being with a woman who was heavily into this stuff. She tied me up, literally she could have killed me right there if she...

I sometimes wonder if my older sisters husband does the same, they're in their late 40's, have young children together. I'm on friends-basis with him and I can sense some things via "reading through the lines" of what he says about other women. He's a trucker who travels all over the country...

"You have the right to *request*. Well obviously I suppose. There is nothing stopping my partner from sleeping with whoever she wants even if its someone who I dislike. Its not like I'm going to cause her any distress over it, but it would cause me to be greatly sad around her, unloving, and...

I don't get it... I'm suddenly feeling dumb or old fashioned or something. May I ask: whats the deal with both women calling him daddy? is he much older, or a sugar daddy or what? How does that relate to him being a dom? unless he is much older and/or richer? Why does she feel concerned that...

As per the OP, its a personal thing. If you really do not like someone and you'd dislike the idea of your lover sleeping with that person... surely then whats the problem? Surely it works both ways for either person? There's nothing worse than someone you don't get on with saying "I slept with...

That's the world we live in! Its perfectly fine for a man to have two girlfriends, but its not okay for a woman to have two boyfriends - that's just soooo wrong. No intellect required tbh, I know how you feel about it though.

I read a while back that Spartan women would sleep with whoever she liked regardless. If she had a baby then (western) society or her male partner would in effect, be what it does today - financially support the upbringing of her child. Ultimately, as a society to create the greatest warriors of...

After the OP I've skimmed through this thread so all I'll say is: problem with this relationship is that she wants a primary and a secondary male partners. And by the sound of it the so-called original primary partner is not the love of her life anymore. THAT is wrong and isn't poly. That is...

Well, the Spartans were basically extremely Poly. I have a feeling we have some way to go... lol

From a male perspective here. And I do emphasise that - "everyone is different". So all we can do is share opinions and experiences. Personally I'm amazed that he feels he has the time or sexual interest in seeing another woman if he already has 4 kids and another on the way. Unless he isn't...

Its ironic really. Since I was 20 (I'm 37) I've never really had a sexual girlfriend who has been into sex toys like dildo's/vibrators even though I've always encouraged it for her-them. I've bought loads of "erotic" clothing like stripper heels, latex clothing, lingerie and regular sexy night...