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DTMFA. She's not the woman you're looking for. (Wants kids now, doesn't want to be poly) And you're not the man she's looking for. (Doesn't want to commit to just her, not sure if babies are for you.) Those are relationship deal-breakers.

Some unsolicited advice: Do everything you can to make her feel welcome in your lives together. You will sleep knowing you are putting your all into something that is clearly very important to you and your partner. It is possible for you and your partner to bond over this new addition.

As a member of a vee, where my metamour would rather have our boyfriend all to herself. You do not want to be there when your boyfriend falls in love with someone else. You will be miserable and unhappy and insecure. Your metamour will be devastated that you do not accept her as part of your...