Recent content by Xani

Thanks for all the responses guys, I appreciate it! Hearing your thoughts has given me new insight and I have an update. Still haven't seen him in person, but I asked him some questions. I figured that was on me if he wasn't going to volunteer any info, and I knew gauging his response to me...

I agree, and I think it's the disruption of that new intimacy high that's been so jarring. I've never had that experience with any of my previous partners. It's put in perspective how fragile and important that stage of a relationship can be, and left me wondering how/if we can pick up where we...

I (28F) started seeing someone new (29M), and there's been a few bumps. Background: my husband (30M) and I have been open/poly for 3 years and it's been great. I've dated two different people in that time, both of whom I still see to some degree. I wasn't actively looking for anyone new but I...