I should mention that I am very new to this.
The thing getting to me is that I am discovering new things that were not stated at the beginning. If I am told one thing, I don't expect to find another thing out later on. If he says he is not sexually active with his wife and that is why they are...
I am a relatively young girl in a relationship with an older married man whose wife has a boyfriend her own age.
It is just the four of us. I have not met the wife or her boyfriend.
There is struggle on my part, which I hope to overcome.