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    Spirituality has nothing to do with alcohol or drug addiction!

    Hi! Nothing really serious except I just wish the forum category/topics moderator not to allow bigots to subliminally link spirituality and alternative religions to alcoholism and other forms of addiction. We have enough of the dominant culture's associating our belief systems to that of drunks...
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    Advice on Sex parties and boundaries

    I have an issue with nondy2's sweeping assumptions, esp. her standards for maturity. I heard the same flawed logic in our workplace, where a person was deprived of career advancement just because she's single with no kids, hence, "too immature to handle managerial responsibilities". This is a...
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    How "out" are you as poly, really? And why?

    I understand the predicament of legally married couples, esp. those with kids. If they have been honest about their situation from the very start, non-primary poly partners should not feel bad 'closeted'. Being indiscreet will bring them a lot of legal/financial troubles. In my own experience...
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    Polyandry - what do you think?

    Im f. Based on what i read here, polyamory is the more appropriate term than polyandry, as there is no gender bias with the word. I believe many women here are into this relationship configuration. I used to have bf before while in an ltr to another man. But i guess polyandry, like being...
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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    f, bi, in ltr to a straight man, but rel. is open
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    Witchcraft

    Hi infinity, I was raised a Catholic as a child so "witchcraft and magic" is something I experienced during the Sunday masses or service. During the Eurcharist, the invocative ritual of the priest culminate in what they call as the consecration where the bread is transformed into the body of...
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    Very new 'Young Poly' seeks advice

    Hi Needlessly, My 2 cents: Based on personal experience, if the couple appears to be mono, it is best to approach the woman or wife , Ms. CC, first. Make friends and feel the waters. In that way, you save face and avoid the unnecessary negative labels. Men are, by nature, more aggressive and...
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    "Twin souls" and polyamory

    Hello! I'm a believer of the soul mate/twin flame concept because I have met one, yet I am convinced it is not limited to one mate. Imho, Souls are not inherently 'twined' with another soul (of opposite or same genders) but through a long series or incarnations, they develop karmic bonds with...
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