Recent content by Yalana

Personally I would take some time apart completely to figure everything out. You sound like you are trying to find your way to being supportive and happy for them. But you are allowed to be angry. There aren't just emotional issues at play here. From a practical standpoint, whether you have...

I've tried to get some answers for my own peace of mind but I've been told NP and Sally are discussing it all and if there is something I need to know, I'll know. I'm respecting that but it is difficult with the odd niggles I'm getting. Few clarifications - Sally doesn't have children. Sally's...

I asked NP for some clarification on a few things and he was willing to talk about it Last month - *He asked Sally if she would be willing to meet our kids as the relationship progresses. Sally says she would love to *He then asks Sally if she would meet me, Sally says she does not like to...

She comes round either when they are in bed or they're with me. A few of my friends have kids they get on really well with and we live in an area that has a lot of local wildlife spots they love visiting. It has been mentioned by NP that he would like Sally to meet the kids properly, I'm not...

I don't hide away and if I don't want to go out, they go somewhere else, but I don't mind that bit. Partner lives alone and I go see them, or a friend I'm close to, plus I care for my disabled sister so I have plenty going on outside the home and am only in the house a couple of evenings a week...

Sorry, looking back I missed some info, my bad. It's a couple months new rather than brand new, but I understand what you mean. Dates tend to happen whenever they both want them to, and she has no problem having dates at NP and my home (they have done a few times) just issues with meeting me...

Hey folks, been around a while but not posted. Hoping to get some views on what to do with my current situation. Back story - Polyamorous for 8+ years, I currently have a NP and a partner I dont live with. Partner is incredibly parallel, it's not my first choice, I'm quite fond of kitchen...