Recent content by Yasuru

Thank you all for your input. I definately will have a talk with my wife, she deserves to know what's going on with me. At the same time, I need to keep sorting things out in my own mind. Salute

It is clandestine right now, but I want to change that. One is divorced but dating, the other is in an unhappy marriage. I would not mind doubling with the first, but I don't care of the 2nd's spouce as I don't feel he treats her well.

I absolutely do not have time for another significant relationship. I also do not know how my wife would take it, but my guess is not well. But, I am also not willing or, I believe able, to never see them again.

Let me clarify a bit... I am facebook "friends" with about a dozen and we chat occasionally. But there are 2 that I feel like I am still in love with. That's the part I'm having trouble reconciling.

First, my background... I am a 40 year old male, married to a wonderful woman, and I have 2 fantastic kids. I feel like I should be content. A female friend of mine mentioned the term "polyamorous" to me and it struck a chord. The struggle I am having is that I always believed that ALL guys...