Recent content by Zollstock

After 8 months of struggles, 100 more comments from my lover about their sex with others and them falling in love again with somebody else and using me as their couch I left. My frustration was making both our lives impossible and now I am terribly sad but I feel so much better. I am in my life...

I am working on it. Since I wrote the first post my lover and I had several conversations, meetings and discussions and they said they are working on the desire they have lost towards me. They are trying to figure out how to desire someone with whom they have been together for a longer time, as...

well no! I would like to know about others' experiences, if that happened to you as well and how did you cope with it if you did cope with it!

And I know, it's but I also love to share mine and my lover's emotions and I like to know what is going on with their life and I like to tell them about mine. In this specific case, not having informations about their happiness with their new lover would make me assume that they have no libido...

The only rare sexual activity I currently have with my lover is oral sex, which is only given to me. It is great, yes, but I don't feel them appreciating my body in its entirety. They reassure me, tell me I'm beautiful, but are also always commenting on other people and how much they desire them...

Thank you for your answer, what you say is very true! This is the case happening and what we are doing. For the rest I will have to work on myselfand on my self esteem. That helps in general :o It was nice to read your words, so thanks! Z.

hi all! this is my first thread, I have been thinking a lot about asking around about my issues with this specific topic, and I guess I have come to a point where it's pointless not to do it. so here it goes! how do I learn to be interested again and flirt and enjoy the company of others now...