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I am very aware of the cuckold community that exists. My husband goes to those sites often, if he is not looking at pictures of me or his ex-wife with other men. My husband may be a cuckold, but he is not what is often displayed in the cuckold pics you find online. My husband may enjoy...

I will admit that my husband is a very special man in the fact that he has/does allow me to play with numerous other men. Few men are able to share their wife or girlfriend with other men without feeling jealous or intimidated. My husband feels most loved by me when I have sex with other men...

KC43; First, as far as accepting it when they say no, I saw it as very manly and masculine when my new man told me NO. My husband will not tell me NO, ever, for any reason. As far as if I am asking for them to interact sexually with me, whenever and wherever I want it? The answer is no. It...

"Could you be willing to clarify what you meant there? What exactly are you asking? To me that could go two ways because I am not clear on what you mean. NO, it is not a lot to ask, you just have to actually ask "Would you like oral sex with me at this time?" Because unless you ask him if...

I have played with several men in the past, and I have a semi-steady boyfriend, but I have met a new man that I have really fallen for. He is not entirely available as often as I would like him to be, though. The thing is that's the part about hi that really turns me on. He is so much more...

I have my husband, who is my primary. I also have my "other husband." I also have a steady boyfriend. We also swing. So, I have several men that I see either regularly or on occasion. My husband will always be my primary. I love my husband and my "other husband" equally. The love I feel for my...

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At what age did you first realistically identify that polyamory was for you? 39, after meeting my current husband. In a fashion that you are comfortable, please let me know how you began introducing polyamory into your life style? Hubby brought it up and it sounded like something I would...

It is my opinion that you and your wife are each others primaries. So, it is really up to both of you as to what you both want and can agree upon. Some men want to be there the entire time their spouse is with her other. Some others and spouses value alone time with their other. So, there is no...

If you were invited, then go for it. Several years ago, before I met my husband, his ex wife, who was then his current wife, was attracted to a woman and the other woman was attracted to both of them. The had a few threesomes, then my husband backed out because he felt that the relationship...

What happened for/with me was that I had to realize that my husband could actually fall in love with someone else. We had this other person to the house and my husband and this other person clicked, big time! It was so obvious. I told my husband that I was scared. And I was. I was terrified of...

Your feelings are not uncommon. Many people go through those feelings. It just happens, but it is something that either goes away and turns into happiness for the other partner or it doesn't go away. Those feelings are a form of jealousy. It is a fear that you will not have as much time with him...

Non-Monogamy is for Mature People I don't mean to sound harsh, but it seems to me that your husband is a very childish man. You say you are both full-on open poly, but it doesn't seem that way to me. Polyamory is not for the immature. It is for those who are mature enough to handle it. In a...

"If consent collapses into simple hedonism, it seems to me it can't even be a necessary condition for an ethical relationship, let alone a sufficient condition." Can you please define what you understand "simple hedonism" to mean?

The church we attend is a non-denominational Christian church. A lot of younger people attend this church.

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A Wife's Take On Cuckolding and Bulls. (Part 3) There are certain men I have more respect for than I do for others. The men I respect most are the men who are secure enough in themselves and their wife or girlfriend's love that they are willing and even encouraging of their wife or girlfriend...

A Wife's Take On Cuckolding and Bulls. (Part 2) My husband feels most loved when I have sex with other men and I feel most loved by my husband when he tells me that he appreciates me and what I do for him. I also love it when he comes up behind me and hugs and kisses me and tells me that he...

A Wife's Take On Cuckolding and Bulls. (Part 1) My husband considered himself to be a cuckold for years, and still kind of is. Before meeting his current girlfriend and becoming one of her Bulls, my husband was cuckolded while with me and his ex-wife, often and for many, many years. On mine...

My husband had the same feelings For the longest time my husband wondered what every other guy had that he didn't. I had boyfriends and lovers galore, his ex-wife was the same way. One of my lovers was intimate with me, my sister and three of my friends, my husband's girlfriend and my second...