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Oh boy, time for an update! So first off, Alex got a little drunk on Christmas eve as she was seeing a friend back home and they were catching up over drinks. When she got back from the pub we were texting and I was basically just hyping her up and telling her she deserves to have people in her...

So this update starts with me admitting I'm an idiot haha So turns out when Alex said I can refer to us as whatever I want she didn't mean in a there's no label we aren't together way, ooops. Last night I was staying at hers and i jokingly was like god Alex just be my girlfriend and they turned...

Just a quick update! I've finally hit full NRE hell with Alex and its a little bit terrifying but so so good. I was really holding back since things weren't official but i've started staying over at her house every saturday now so we spend basically most the weekend together now. I don't know...

Oh man I'm so jealous of you getting to go to Pax! my favourite youtube person who makes dnd content is gonna be there Ginny Di! I don't comment often but I love reading your blog and staying up to date on it all <3 you're like my polyam role model haha

I thought I'd done another update recently but must have dreamt it or something, oops! Things with Alex are going well, still very casual and not 'official' but she's so cuddly and affectionate when we're together that like her actions say otherwise so i'm not too bothered. I really find myself...

I was waiting to update this but it's been a while so hi, a few things have happened so lets dive on in! First of all, The girl that didn't reply much got much much better at replying! We'll refer to her as Alex. We arranged a date after talking for a week or so and had soooo much fun at a...

Well, just a quick update because honestly it's not much good news but I'm really not too bothered. The date with the girl didn't work out due to my train beign cancled and just shitty travel stuff, so we rearrnaged for that thursday instead. she spoke to me Monday, then I had radio silence for...

I've been putting off updating this because my mental health hasn't been great but I've been at a funeral today and had a good cry and honestly feel way better now it's all over. It was my grandad's funeral, we had a lovely humanist service for him today. I've been a bit of a mess honestly...

So, a few things have happened since my last update. I downloaded a few dating apps and decided to at least talk to a few people and go on some dates. Well, I met a girl and it was going pretty well, but then two dates later she sort of admited although she was curious about poly stuff she was...

Hey, it's your friendly neighoburhood overthinker updating to say, guess what, it was all just anxiety in my head and everything is fine! So to my merit I did have a big cry about it and talked to me friend and she really helped me by telling me that even if I wasn't poly my emotions are normal...

Well it's been a month and I probably shouldn't be writing this because I don't feel completely in the best mindset just now but here we go. So Ash has been sort of slowly talking to people and looking for another partner for the last few months. She wasn't really getting anywhere and it was...

So, it's been a while. I'll be honest, i've been dreading making this posts for months and months but I think i've finally come to terms with what happened and I may as wel share it here. Ash and Josie broke up so we're now a V instead of a triad. I took it a lot harder than either or them did...

I don't really have any advise as honestly reading through this you seem incredibly great at rationalizing your own thoughts. I just wanted to drop a quick comment to say i read this to my partners and i made one of them spit out their drink at the pringle can bit and we all laughed a lot so...

I'll do a big proper update on things when I actually have one, and process a few things going on now. As you can tell, I don't like to post about things that I haven't fully processed yet. In the mean time, when lock down started, we started naming the days in our household. We did this from...

This! It's maybe a little bit more harsh than I would ever say it but this is really important. I completely agree with the others that this is just jealousy and you need to break it down and understand why you're jealous. But stuff like this, him disappearing for a bit and you immediately...

A lot has has happened during lockdown and this post is lengthy already so I'm just gonna cover the main points. Ash is classed as high risk as she's asthmatic and was freaking out about leaving the house to the point that she was refusing to come shopping with us, which yes is fair enough if...

Well, I should have an excuse for not posting for so long, but really I don't. This is gonna be a big update as a lot has happened. So, a week or so after my visit with Katie I started getting my usual non commitment issues as i like to call them, where i start worrying about not being official...

I honestly felt so inspired reading your last post there bluebird. You are so right that he doesn't define if you're lovable or anything like that. I've been reading your blog this i joined this site and just want to say all the love and hugs to you, so glad you're taking this as okay as you can...

Our meeting went awesome! We met up at the train station and walked around for a bit, got some lunch, went to a few nerdy shops. Katie (okcupid girls upgraded name) She was very very nervous, she was just sort of lead us around not holding hands or anything, she was pretty much pulsating...

I'm interested in what you're playing, do we get a sneak peak? haha