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Just an quick update! we're definitely meeting up for a fun date and overnight stay next Thursday and we're all eagerly counting down the days! its gonna be a nice little break and sort of holiday for me and ash, which makes the like £100 I'm spending on it a bit more worth it haha. Both Ash...

I've been meaning to update here for awhile but every time I've come here I've just not had the energy too. I honestly feel a little bit embarrassed for posting that last update and freaking out about a crush which honestly has sadly turned out to be nothing. I talked to Chance a lot, like every...

Giving an update now because oh boy I realised some stuff I just have to talk about. So first of all, my doctors appointment got me official diagnoses of severe IBS and PCOS, neither which I was surprised at. I was hoping there would be something a little bit more than ibs going on to explain...

Well, time for the monthly update! My disciplinary meeting at work went okay. Got my first written warning for having 5 absences in a 12 month period, but its kinda a good thing actually because it finally kicked my ass into gear and made me go to the doctors about some issues. I had to give...

I wanted to do my next update when i had some good news to share about getting a new job or something, but sadly that hasn't happened. Been meaning to write this for a few weeks but just kept holding off just in case. So yep, still no new job for me. Which in turn has made me more stressed and...

I definitely second this! I live with both my partners and a lot of stress and tension can build up when you just expect the time your spending together to count as quality time spent together. Its super important to still plan dates and fun things to do, even something as simple as sitting...

Welp, it's been a month, time seems to be flying by these days. First of all, Bubble did in fact take that job i was talking about and because she had like 2 weeks of holiday she technically had her last day at work like 3 weeks ago. Bubble isn't one for touching and hugs really, has a bit of...

I have a minute so thought i better give this a little update. Work has been the same, still stressy and still an absolute mess. I had a job interview for another call centre but kind of freaked out and turned it down in a panic that i don't wanna leave my current place because i've made some...

Soooo, been thinking of updating this for a long time but always been too tired to, so now i'm sot of chill and have some energy is a better time than any I guess. Work has been very very challenging recently, the client have decided a lot of new rules which is making the place pretty...

Well hey there, sorry it's been over a month since I updated this. The last few weeks running up to the move were stressful as hell and i didn't really wanna be writing an update when i was super stressed and not in the right mindset honestly. We literally didn't even get confirmation we were...

I'm with Vinsanity0 on this one actually. when Josie and I first got with Ash, Josie had this huge freak out that she wasn't poly and was only going along with it to make me happy and was worried she was mono. The way to combat this is she would test run it and after a few months if she wasn't...

DaCoda has hit it right on the head here. It sucks when you're used to having sex be this huge validating thing in your life, and then you're refused it. It even sucks when its just because your partner doesn't have the same sex drive/doesn't view sex this way and it really causes friction in...

Well, last time i posted you can tell just how tired i was due to the fact i left my notes on what i wanted to talk about at the bottom of the post there, oops, haha. Anyway, to pick up where i stopped last time: I didn't go on that work night out as in the day time Josie and I went to view a...

This is a topic i feel i actually have a decent amount to say on as my opinion has actually changed since i first thought about being poly. If you read my blog you'll get the full story of it all (http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=111382) But the triad i'm in has been my first...

My experience with this one is sort of funny since everyone who'd I've told is poly has either made a joke about how i must need a big bed, or gone into the weird questions then said something alone those lines. Just now i am renting a flat with 2 bedrooms that both have small double beds in...

It's been awhile but not really had the energy to post here. Hope i don't miss any details as i sort of feel like a lot has happened but also not a lot has happened since my last post. So, we all traveled back to my home town for a few days so we could meet some of my friends and such. The...

Well, picking up from where I left off last time. We picked up my friend and had diner together. After that we all just sort of ended up doing our own thing but just in the same room which honestly was sort of nice. I stayed up wayyyyyyy too late with him and Josie and only got like 5 hours...

Well, its been a week since i last wrote this so thought i better do a little update. I'm enjoying doing little weekly updates honestly, even if they aren't the most interesting things ever its nice to have somewhere to write it all. Anyway, Ash came over Monday to chat about D&D stuff as...

I completely agree with this! I've been in my triad for nearly 3 months now and in that time I've already told my mum and she's met both of my partners. My mum is very open minded and only thing she really had to say about it is she's known people try to do this and just to be careful I don't...

Hi and welcome here! My triad with my girls may be a hell of a lot newer, but yup i'm one of those members in a triad here. If you ever want to have a chat, you're welcome to PM me :)